Today’s quote comes from Ludwig Feuerbach: “Your first duty is to make yourself happy.” Feuerbach was a critic of religion and a humanist, emphasizing that individuals should use all their senses to understand the world and connect with others. He believed that love—love for nature and for fellow human beings—emerges through these connections.
I wholeheartedly agree with Feuerbach. Only by respecting and accepting ourselves—by cultivating self-love—can we truly find happiness. This self-love is not about elevating oneself above others or fostering arrogance; rather, it is about genuine self-acceptance.
When we are happy, we are in a better position to bring happiness to others. Conversely, if we feel negativity within ourselves, it becomes challenging to uplift those around us. In such a state, we may not even see others clearly; we become trapped in our own perceptions, viewing the world solely through our filters. It’s akin to placing a gray filter over a camera lens, making the brightest blue sky appear dull and gray. In this mindset, happiness is difficult to share, and kind words may get stuck in our throats.
To express humanity and compassion toward others, we must first focus on our own happiness. Ultimately, we can only share what we truly feel. By prioritizing our well-being, we create a foundation from which we can positively impact those around us.
In conclusion, Feuerbach’s wisdom serves as a reminder that self-happiness is not a selfish pursuit; it is a prerequisite for fostering genuine connections and spreading joy in the world.
